And that is why I carry appendix, but I realize that doesn't work for everyone. I also use a holster the securely clips to my belt so if I do need to reholster I just pull the holster, put the gun in, and then put the holster back in. It's not like I'm drawing my weapon multiple times a day...more likely zero times per day.That is exactly why I'm not comfortable carrying hot. Holstering IWB, 4-5 oclock, I can't see what I'm doing. I've missed the holster on more than one occasion.
I've made it part way through that thread you linked earlier to the story. Page 8 or so.
Another thing to think about: They do make conceal carry pistols with manual safeties if you aren't comfortable carrying "hot". I'd MUCH rather have to flip of a safety than try to rack a slide as you can do the former with one hand. I really like the safeties on Sigs personally (I don't own one, have just handled them and like the ergos).