Maybe it's been said already but in real life, the tom struts and gobbles to attract hens to him. When he does that and the hen he sees doesn't come to him, he leaves to find a hen that will.
You know what they say about opinions, but I have had the most success when only using hen decoys. I have killed birds with Jake and strutters out, but it seems like the reaction to the Male decoys are a mixed bag. That's just my experience, so don't take that as the gospel.