I have the same struggle for my daughters. For them, I get most of their stuff from the hiking focused brands like Marmot, North Face, Sierra Designs, and Outdoor Research. They all have great gear for women/girls. If she is bow hunting, those brands may not be ideal, since they aren't always the quietest. But, I was able to get awesome down puffys for both my daughters on sale for ~$125 each. Now that my oldest is starting to slow down on the growth, I will probably sprinkle in one Sitka piece a year. But, not a whole kit at one time.