We moved up August of 2020 and have the same extended family dynamic ( we have two kiddos). We left an area where we had a good network in the community and could rally up sitters, grandma's etc with ease.We bought our house a couple years ago and we viewed it two hours after it went on the market (first people) and we were one of three offers in by the end of that day. At that point we missed out on 3 houses because we didn't find them on day 1. We're on the East end of Wasilla in the prime commute area. I can think of 6 houses in our neighborhood that have sold in the last couple months. Five of them never had a for sale sign up; just right to a sold sign. The other one was asking a CRAZY amount so it took a little longer to sell - 4 days. It's a perfect storm if you live in a good commuter area in the valley. Housing shortage and people are running from Anchorage. We are having very serious talks about selling and living in an RV for 1-2 years.
It is what you make it. It's easier if family is wealthy and/or retired and they can visit whenever they want to. Our families are neither so we feel pretty obligated to visit so they can see grandkids. My family is spread out across 4 states and my wife's is in another. So it's not just one trip to the L48 and we can see everyone. When you live here with no family, half of your vacation time is spent on vising family. You literally get to hunt half as much as someone with family here. There is no help with kids from grandmas or siblings. No quick babysitters. No asking someone to pickup the kids if you're in a bind. No weekend at Grandmas so we can do something on our own. And if you want to go on vacation, you either need to fly up a grandma ($$$$) or take an extra couple days and extras flights ($$$$$$$$) to drop kids off and then onto your destination. We're to the point now where our Christmas/Birthday presents to our parents are annual plane tickets to Alaska. It's a sacrifice but worth it for us. Alaska was made for raising kids in.
It's been a struggle and I wouldn't say it has been worth it just yet but I have faith it will be.
Housing market is rough in all the places we have been looking. I'm a TJ maxx, bargain bin kinda guy so we will likely be renting until market conditions are more friendly in my court.
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